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Thank you so much for sharing your journey with such depth, vulnerability, and humor. As someone who has also navigated chronic illness, including endometriosis and IVF to get pregnant, your words truly resonate with me. I struggled a lot with pain tolerance because my endometriosis took years to be diagnosed. The cramps were so unbearable that I had to switch pain medications every six months because they stopped working. It’s honestly a blessing that I never developed an addiction given how much medication I needed just to get through the pain. During my IVF, I required almost three times the usual amount of anesthesia for egg retrieval, and after my son was born, I had to immediately go on an IUD to stop my period to avoid surgery. The journey was tough, and it took three years of preparation just to get to IVF. I’ve also had two miscarriages, which made it even harder emotionally.

Your words about advocating for yourself really hit home for me, especially since I’ve had to fight for the right care too. Finding the right 'Avengers team' of doctors was life-changing, and having supportive people around you, like your girlfriend Angelina, makes all the difference.

On top of that, as a domestic violence survivor, I really connected with what you said about finding trust and love again. After what I went through, I struggled so much with intimacy and trust, but my husband has been amazing. He was so patient, caring, and understanding as we rebuilt that part of my life together—moving from pain and shame to intimacy with love and pleasure. Your resilience and openness really inspire me.

And I can’t forget to mention how excited I am for your book! The way you’re bringing new energy to vampire lore is amazing, and I love that your peers are recognizing the hard work and creativity you’ve poured into the story. I’m so eager to dive into the world you’ve built!

Thank you again for sharing both your personal and creative journey. You’re a true inspiration, and your words remind me that even in the hardest moments, there’s strength, love, and community waiting on the other side.

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